Monday, July 2, 2012

Recent Break up - A Month Ago

About a little over a year I met a girl at a party, didn't really talk to her or even say hi to her, but she did happen to catch my attention, all I knew was her name and mutual friends, what I did was add her on facebook. I heard so many things about her, that she wasn't faithful that she lied, that she was a no good dirty girl who didnt respect anybody including her self. I thought to myself could all this non sense be true, I wanted to find out, so I did- Big mistake. Three months in of being facebook friends she received a message from me, a simple "hey" which meant a million words in my mind. We exchanged messages, smiles and friendly words, off to good start but I wanted more, asked for her number and talked for like an hour that night. Little did I know she had a boyfriend. So months go by shes being "faithful" to her boyfriend by ignoring me completely. I got a job at local low end supermarket, getting paid pennies to burn off calories. About also 3 months she gets a job there too being a cashier, I made my moves, and boy I'll tell you the easiest girl ever to get with, she wasn't a 10 on my scale more like a 7 but she sure did pass time. So in about two weeks of just talking to her she was my girlfriend. Was I proud? Not really she was known as a "hoe" to many people, she thought I was stupid and that I didn't know what she was doing at school( since shes still in high school). Her Maturity level about everything was about a 5, her body was like 7.5, Sure I know I'm no where near perfect but I do respect me and my body. So I was nice to her, treated her right and never tried to get anything out of her, It was a real roller coaster ride, I was enjoying the highs even though I knew they weren't going to last. Honestly I did like her, would I fight for her of course not. About 3 months in the relationship I gave up on her, I clearly just wanted her to break up with me, never texted her, just stop caring when she caught up, I put on my Tony Award into practice. "Baby I'm sorry I'll change I know I haven't been treating you the same, I'm sorry". I would say that for courtesy. I knew I just had to hold on until her birthday June 10, pretty awesome, my master plan not tell her happy birthday and not waste money on a gift for her. It worked! She got mad and came out of the closet saying She loved her boyfriend. Of course that person wasn't me it was her "ex". It didn't hurt me because I had already gave up on her. My experiences made me realize that just because a girl has a cute face doesn't mean shes a cute girl. I digged deep into her, I saw the way she lied to me, all her rebudles and excuses. Why her phone wasn't working because it was "wet", when in reality she got it taken away because she had gotten caught sneaking out of her house, And I was the one who told her parents- haha classic. When she said I had trust issues, when in reality I would see her walking with her ex after school and holding hands. It was really fun, getting to know her and sharing nice moments, and watching her lie to me. No I wasn't being ignorant I was experimenting with nature. So I wont make the mistake to go out with a girl like that, don't want to live another soap opera, just glad mine doesn't have a second season.

1 comment:

  1. Wow!!! Very nice piece of writing, Mr. Pascual! You have a lot of insight into the world of dating for being such a young guy. Hope you learned a lot from this so the next girl will be even luckier!!! :)

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